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The Grace Leather Patch Cap

The Grace Leather Patch Cap

The Run Down
 
You don’t want a cap that fades into the crowd. You want one that’s equal parts pretty and powerful.
 
The Grace Cap is navy on navy with a floral front that turns heads and a big square leather patch stamped with the iconic Bar M brand. A turquoise stripe and a pink stripe wrap the mesh back — because grace doesn’t mean quiet, it means bold. This is the cap for gals who ride with grit but carry themselves with style.
 
Dress it up, wear it down, or put it straight to work — the Grace Cap does it all and does it damn well. 
 
It's pretty, punchy, and cowgirl to the core.
$50.00Price
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** Scroll down to see more on shape options
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Not sure what will suit? Click on your face shape below.

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Crown

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Brim Front

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Brim Shape

Opt for taller wider crowns. Those straight slender lines will not do you many favours.
Wide or extra wide cattleman
Puncher
Wider fronts are best with rounder corners if you are female - it will compliment your face nicely.
Wide 8"
Wide 8"
Extra wide 10"
Cool Hand Luke
Wide 8"
Extra wide 10"
Minnick
Wide 8"
Extra wide 10"
Lower wider brims are the best for you! They will give nice proportion.
Relaxed Taco or George
Relaxed Taco 
George 
Relaxed Taco or George
George
Relaxed Taco or George
George 
Opt for taller wider crowns. Those straight slender lines will not do you many favours. 
Wide or extra wide cattleman
Puncher
Wider fronts are best. Sharper square corners look a treat.
Wide 8"
Wide 8"
Extra wide 10"
Cool Hand Luke
Wide 8"
Extra wide 10"
Brick
Wide 8"
Extra wide 10"
Lower wider brims are the best for you! They will give nice proportion.
Relaxed Taco or George
Relaxed Taco 
George 
Relaxed Taco or George
George
Relaxed Taco or George
George 
You get the benefit of suiting most shapes!!
Unless you are a strict reiner shape, opt for 7" or wider front. Unless you like the super wide look - choose 7-8".
Pick your poison! I'll list good looking combos below.
Standard, Bar M Lazy, wide or extra wide cattleman
Puncher
Cool Hand Luke
Brick
7"- Wide 8"
7"- Wide 8"
7"- Wide 8"
7"- Wide 8"
Extra wide 10"
Minnick
Clint/Fedora/Stockman Style
Square 6"
7"- Wide 8"
7"- Wide 8"
Extra wide 10"
Gus
Square 6"
7"- Wide 8"
Extra Wide 10"
Rounded
Half Taco, Relaxed Taco or George
Half Taco, Relaxed Taco, George or Low
Relaxed Taco or George
Relaxed Taco or George
George 
Relaxed Taco or George
Relaxed Taco or George
Relaxed Taco or George
George or Low
Come and Go, no western sides
Half Taco
Relaxed Taco or George
Relaxed Taco or George
Rolled Brim
Let's give you a little more width, and not too much heigh
Standard, Bar M Lazy cattleman
Brick
Minnick
Clint/Fedora/Stockman Style
Unless you are a strict reiner shape, opt for 7" or wider front. Not too wide here.
Square 6"- 7"
Square 6"- 7"
Square 6"
Rounded 7"
7"- Wide 8"
Extra wide 10"
The right brim shape with the right front for the best look.
Half Taco, Relaxed Taco or George
Half Taco, Relaxed Taco or George
Half Taco, Relaxed Taco  George
Relaxed Taco or George
George or Low
Come and Go, no western sides
Small heads + faces: low cattleman, bar m lazy cattleman with a square or round 6" relaxed taco or george brim.
Still stuck?
Pop that in the notes of your order and send through a selfie...Millie will advise you on what will suit 

THE TRUTH BEHIND THE NUMBERS IN FUR FELTS

What the X  is going on?

In the hat world, X-ratings started as a way to show how much beaver fur was in a felt hat. 10X = 100% beaver—at least, that’s how it used to be.
 

These days? It’s more like a guideline, and every brand does it differently. At Bar M, we only sell Rodeo King felts because they’re straight-up about what’s in the blend. Here’s what their X-ratings actually mean:

10% Beaver Fur | 90% Wild Hare/Rabbit Fur

 

Entry-level but earns its keep. Affordable, durable, and great for first-timers or ranchers on a budget. Good looks, good shape, good start.

12-15% Beaver Fur | 85-88% Wild Hare/Rabbit Fur

 

A step up in slick. Smoother finish, better hold, and a little more polish without going full fancy. Ride in it, dress it up—it’ll do both.

30-35% Beaver Fur | 65-70% Wild Hare/Rabbit Fur

 

The sweet spot. Tough enough to work hard, clean enough to show off. Great shape retention and solid longevity. Crowd favourite.

60-65% Beaver Fur | 35-40% Wild Hare/Rabbit Fur

 

All beaver, all business. Serious structure, elite quality, and made to be passed down—not worn out. The gold standard.

100% Beaver Fur

 

Premium performance. High-beaver content means better water resistance, buttery shaping, and a hat that lasts for years. Classy but cowboy.

100% Beaver Belly Fur

 

Like wearing a secret—only the real ones know. Made from the finest beaver belly fur—lightweight, ultra-luxurious, and shaped like a dream. Only for those who know what they’re doing.

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So now you know—those Xs aren’t just fluff. They tell you exactly what kind of hat you’re getting, and at Bar M, we don’t sell anything we wouldn’t wear ourselves. Whether you’re starting out or stepping up, we’ve got a hat that’ll ride with you for the long haul.

What they say about Bar M

Back for another one!

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average rating is 5 out of 5

Hi Millie, I picked my hat up this morning. It looks great and fits great! Thank you so much. Once I'm back, I'll be keen to order a straw hat aswell.

Awesome!

Twister Twisted Weave Straw Hat

average rating is 5 out of 5

Honestly my hat....fits like a bloody glove!!!

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The Hook Halter Custom Order

average rating is 5 out of 5

Cannot recommend these halters enough

No More Knots!!

The Hook Halter Custom Order

average rating is 5 out of 5

Millie at Bar M was a pleasure to work with and created a superb quality custom rope halter for me using the colours from a crown leather beaded breastplate that I treasure. She was easy to deal with and the finished procut exceeded my expectations. My favourite feature is the quick fastening hook to make it easy to put on and take off the halter especialy for children or people with hand mobility issues. No more knots!! I will be looking at getting more rope halters in the future from Bar M!

Gorgeous!

10% Beaver Fur Felt Hat Black

average rating is 5 out of 5

I got a new show hat from Millie at Fieldays. She is such a professional. She really listened to what I wanted.

My fave halters!

The Hook Halter Custom Order

average rating is 5 out of 5

I have the hook halter in both foal/pony and full size, and they're my first pick off the wall no matter who I'm going to catch!

Love my cowboy bridle

The Cowboy Bridle

average rating is 5 out of 5

I got mine at Equifest last year and I cannot recommend these enough!!! So light and comfy on my horse, get yourself one asap!

Amazing quality

The Hook Halter Custom Order

average rating is 5 out of 5

They are amazing quality rope halters. They are perfect for your ground work. NZ owned and operated, the best quality and handmade to fit my horse.

Shipping that is sorted from day one

Bar M Your Order Made My Day

One flat rate shipping fee covers everything

Covers your FIT KIT, pre-paid return to sender bag to send your measurements back to us + your hat shipped in a protective box.

Safety is key

For New Zealand orders, we always send signature required—because your brand-new custom hat is no good sitting on a dodgy doorstep.

One Time Shipping Price

Domestic (NZ) - $119NZD

(FIT KIT, pre-paid return to sender + hat delivery included)

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International - $199NZD

(FIT KIT, pre-paid return to sender + hat delivery included to anywhere in the world)​

Our Perfect Fit Gaurantee

Bar M Custom Hat being hand shaped

We're not in the business of 'close enough'

Your Bar M hat will fit like it was made for you — because it is. That’s why we send you a Fit Kit before we even order the hat.

Our Gaurantee

If, for some reason, your hat isn’t a perfect fit when it arrives (rare, but we’re human), send it back and we’ll make it right.

Our sales are final

Because each hat is custom-built for you, all sales are final — no refunds. The only time we’ll take a hat back is if it’s damaged in transit. We check every hat top to bottom in the workshop before shipping, so you can bet your boots it’s leaving here in perfect condition.

Answers to your questions

Bar M owner answering questions to happy customers abotu custom hats

Once you’ve paid your deposit, we’ll send your Fit Kit straight to you. After you send it back, your hat will be built, shaped, and shipped within 8 weeks. (Usually faster, but we allow wiggle room so you’re not left guessing.)

It will fit—because we use your Fit Kit to size it perfectly. But on the rare chance it needs tweaking, send it back and we’ll make it right.

Custom hats are non-refundable due to their one-of-a-kind nature. The only exceptions are if your hat is damaged in transit. We triple-check every hat before it leaves the workshop, so you won’t be sent anything faulty.

Easy—just write your ideas in the comments section when you order. Millie will get in touch to go through the options with you, from understated to bold.

Say no more. A Custom Workshop Session is the best fit for you. Pop that in the comments section and Millie will talk you through the options—whether in person near Queenstown or online if you can’t travel. We’ll make it happen.

Yes! For $15 you can make your mark forever with branding. This is a hot-iron brand where letters or symbols are carefully burnt onto your hat. It’s bold, permanent, and unapologetically you.

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